I started out by offering Internal Family Systems (IFS) sessions. But “parts work” allows you to get creative and integrate many different ideas and techniques. Over time, as my practice deepened, I found myself intuitively borrowing moves from other healing practices (Gendlin’s Focusing, Core Transformation, Somatic Experiencing, Coherence Therapy…) and spiritual traditions. And now, the boundaries of the techniques I employ are starting to blur.
But, amidst the evolving tapestry, two threads consistently weaved themselves into the heart of my approach: the “somatic” and the “imaginal”. The somatic underscores the wisdom and the visceral knowledge of our body — the stories it tells, the truths it holds, and the sensations that signal deeper emotional landscapes. The imaginal, on the other hand, taps into the evocative power of visual metaphors, archetypes, and resonant visions. It provides a canvas for our deepest feelings, dreams, and ideas, acting as a medium for creative expression in our journey of self-exploration. Also, what remains core to my approach is the “parts” framework, which gives us the affordance to narratively traverse the somatic-imaginal forests.
In these somatic-imaginal explorations, I help you intimately explore your emotions, felt senses, perceptions, conflicts and desires. As we journey through your vast and wild inner worlds, the experience often takes a surreal dream-like psychedelic quality. We venture into the unknown and the uncomfortable areas of the mind with an open heart, opening up the possibilities of letting go of heavy layers of conditioning and discovering true freedom. The explorations are not just about understanding and untangling who you are now, but also exploring the vast possibilities of who you can become.
More about me here. Scroll below to read what people have shared about their explorations with me.
If you’re curious or feeling called to explore, I invite you to book an introductory 2-hour session with me (pay-what-you-want, $1+). For scheduling, please reach out via this form and I’ll get back to you. Or alternatively, feel free to DM me on twitter / email me at nowth3o at gmail.
What People Are Saying ♥️
Incredible IFS session with @nowtheo this morning. He has excellent skills and instincts, both. I highly recommend him.
— Vivid Void (@VividVoid_) September 10, 2024
Theo has gotten even better. If I had to wake up in the middle of the night to get this session I just had, it would have been worth it.
I’m relaxing into the infinite field of living and the water’s great https://t.co/YBKrBGz2EL — Fractal Auth 0/1 new co-ops started (@FractalAuth) November 23, 2023
I loved how our sessions weren’t only about the topic at hand, but helped me get into the groove of untangling myself by myself: Teaching me how to fish. He was along for my ride with an eye on what I want to explore (helps me focus) and openness for whatever came up.
— Anne-Lorraine 🍀 (@AnneSelke) August 17, 2024
Recommend!
did a Core Transformation session with Theo earlier this week and remembered that fundamentally, I am Love ❤️
would absolutely recommend doing IFS or Core Transformation sessions with him! https://t.co/1vWsgFGUBu — Love Pilgrim (@tasshinfogleman) August 11, 2022
my first ever experience was with @nowtheo for an IFS session. since then I’ve worked with an IFS practitioner aaand idk ymmv but I liked theo better https://t.co/gPMu1LZAUK
— christine (@christineist) September 12, 2023
Nice! I’ve rec’d >15 people to him now. A few friends had experience with US-based IFS therapists and found theo’s approach to be more thorough and systematic
Some of that comes from the format, some from the view (deep understanding of meditation & other IFS adjacent things) — Pranab (@nopranablem) February 2, 2023
+10
— brent ❤️🔥 (@_brentbaum) October 24, 2023
kind of peer pressure i can support pic.twitter.com/UdFHlXmsNA
— owen (@blissbrah) February 21, 2024
2 vivid images come to mind when i think back to our session:
1. surgically peeling back the layers of an onion, being careful to keep each layer in tact 2. the receding waves of an ocean, each wave revealing something more solid beneath it — yuelian hong (@YuelianHong) September 20, 2022
have done a few IFS/core transformation sessions with theo, and can confirm that this poetic af tweet describes the experience well ❤️🔥 https://t.co/vaLGW1fZz3
— rob hardy 🌊 (@ungatedlife) June 7, 2024
About a month ago I asked @nowtheo for an introduction to Core Transformation. I’d heard about the modality a number of times and I wanted to experience it for myself.
It turned out to be one of the most pivotal conversations I’ve had all year.https://t.co/r8FTZpm8jy — Daemonic (@daemonhugger) April 14, 2023
many such theo cases
— Love Pilgrim (@tasshinfogleman) February 2, 2024
3 of these sessions were with me and I can highly recommend working with theo if you’re interested in IFS work. I’m really excited to see where our continued sessions will lead. I feel like I’m getting into psychological work with theo that I’ve been hungry for for many years now https://t.co/6yQkMiqj1N
— daniel brottman 🪷 (@danielbrottman) March 20, 2023
I had a beautiful session with Theo back in October and I concur. The microdose seems like a great idea, might have to try it in a future session!
— Matthew Dub (@5matthewdub) January 24, 2023
Had my first, most beautiful IFS session with @nowtheo . It’s like his calm energy automatically puts you at ease. It’s wild how our brains work. Theo acts as a container for your emotions as you go deeper with your parts. Biggest takeaway: resonance is key.
— Garima Katiya (@katiyaji) December 12, 2023
psychedelics: on my own. recommend a facilitator as it was highly challenging.
ifs: @nowtheo . i can’t say enough good things about his style and ability to flip between different modalities as the situation calls for it. — brent ❤️🔥 (@_brentbaum) April 7, 2023
I did one of these sessions with Theo this morning, really powerful and masterfully guided. Highly recommend checking him out! https://t.co/F94Oul6IwZ
— Will (@billiamfrances) April 12, 2023
had two somatic IFS sessions with @nowtheo and he's got a great touch. His ability to balance structured investigation and space to drop into soma helped me be with hard to access parts of the polyhedron I am. Thank you, thank you.
— David Zangwill (@dzangwill) April 27, 2023
this is the way
— slice (afk through 5/5) (@augurydefier) June 25, 2023
This could very well have been one of the most intensely visceral experiences I've ever had. It is not a joke to compare this to psychedelics, but must be done. In doing so the plethora of precautions would apply
Do this if you're unafraid to see your self (whatever it is/isn't) https://t.co/7Byct321qf — o̊ (@j0lms) September 19, 2023
The morning of Tuesday, March 29, 2022, I engaged in a practice known as IFS with the great & generous guide, @nowtheo. This is a story thread 🧵 about my experience.
THE FAMILY ANANSI, PT 1: What A Single Internal Family Systems Session Showed Me About My Self pic.twitter.com/ya9UdIxGWh — anansi 🌞 in alabama (@s0ulDirect0r) March 30, 2022
@nowtheo has good stuff on IFS btw & he's a good guide if y'all wanna try it outhttps://t.co/AnzBL4im8Z
— Orpheas (@OrphicCapital) August 11, 2022
I'll join the crew of people reporting an excellent IFS session with @nowtheo. Instead of a thread tho here's a video in which I talk about what I was able to unpack & honor.
(Also has some NNTD-relevant elements: respecting ppl's learning processes)https://t.co/9QMDX5EUGR — Malcolm Ocean 🌊👋 (@Malcolm_Ocean) May 22, 2022
i should say that this realization came up during a session with @nowtheo who is basically a mind wizard / experienced emotional landscape explorer
made a lot of meaningful discoveries with him i'd basically recommend any person who wants to do good to book a 2h primer session — Michaël Trazzi (@MichaelTrazzi) April 2, 2024
If you haven't checked out Theo and his work you are missing out, really lovely man and really brilliant at what he does. https://t.co/q2KBO8xyHl
— Pattern ⚕ (@AnotherPattern) May 19, 2024
infinite alpha in @nowtheo! still as-yet untapped benefit for all his friends, clients, communities, the world! what u've seen so far is only the beginning! one small step for theo, one giant step for all beings! let's gooooooo!
— Fun Pilgrim (@tasshinfogleman) January 30, 2024